The things we want that we can’t have cause us the most pain

it's just nice being alive

be not proud

"Then did almighty Juno take pity on her long-drawn-out
Sufferings and hard going, sent Iris down from Olympus

To part the agonized soul from the body that still clung to it."  Virgil, The Aeneid

Montana

Risen

like Christ

and such

"The will is a faculty of determining oneself to action in accordance with certain laws."  Immanuel Kant in Fundamental Principles of the Metaphysic of Morals.